Particpants at FASD conference in Sudbury talk about their daily challenges

People living with fetal alcohol spectrum disorder are getting the chance to tell their stories.

A conference wraps up in Sudbury Friday highlighting some of the life challenges people with FASD face .

The event is hosted by several community groups, including Health Sciences North, Neo Kids, Shkagamik-Kwe Health Centre and N’Swakamok Native Friendship Centre.

Valencia Poulton, 13, from Mississauga First Nation, said coping with the disease is a daily struggle, especially in the classroom.

“It kind of makes me anxious, more and more jittery and jumpy,” Poulton said. “But I have special items at school that my teacher gives me and I fidget or I can ask to leave the room for a few minutes.”

She said she’s open about the disease with her classmates.

“Some of them were really supportive about it,” she said. “Some of them were kind of distant toward me for a while and [now] they’re OK with it.”

“That doesn’t make me any more different than I am.”

RJ Formanek, who advocates for people diagnosed with FASD, said he didn’t know he suffered from the condition until he was 47. He said the FASD puts his senses on overdrive, including an extreme sensitivity to fluorescent lights and scents.

“All of these things impact my brain and with these things going on my brain gets tired quicker, which makes me angry easier, and more reactive,” Formanek said.

When he was a student, the condition made him act out, which in turn isolated him from his classmates.

“Right from the beginning I didn’t get along with other kids,” he said. “I didn’t get invited to the birthday parties, you know, the classic things.”

“By the time you’re seven or eight years old you realize a lot of other kids don’t really like you that much. And that’s hard,” he said. (Read more…)